Let’s Talk About Race
If you’re black, brown, color of any kind then you’ve probably talked to your children about race already. It is part of living, but I think it’s something that is uncomfortable for white people to address, or figure out how to talk about, or something forever postponed to be taught by a teacher.
Am I generalizing? Of course. This picture book, Let’s Talk About Race by Julius Lester, provides an excellent framework for having that conversation, not only what race is and means, but also that there’s more to a person beyond that.
Just as I am a story and you are a story
and countries tell stories
about themselves, race is a story, too.
Whether you’re black like me or Asian, Hispanic
or white, each race has a story about itself.
And that story is almost always the same:
“MY RACE IS BETTER THAN YOUR RACE.”
Some stories are true. Some are not.
Those who say
“MY RACE IS BETTER THAN YOUR RACE”
are telling a story that is not true.
I’m having a hard time holding myself accountable to the kind of person I want my children to be. I’m very angry and frustrated with the political climate and feel like every new appointment is a slap in the face. The message in this book is one of empathy and peace.
Do I look at you and think I know your story
when I don’t even know your name?
Or, do I look at you and wonder:
What’s your name?
When were you born?
Where were you born?
Where do you live?
What do you like?
What don’t you like?
Gee, maybe we like and dislike
some of the same things.
You can find a copy of Let’s Talk About Race here, here, and from your library here.


Have you ever had the pleasure of watching chickens strut around? They scratch and dig in the dirt. They eat literally everything trying to grow. And if there’s a strange noise or anything out of the ordinary, those poor little chickens freeze or find a bush to hide under immediately. They’re fearful little biddies, and the perfect animals to build a wall when a strange looking hedgehog shows up in the hen yard.
I really felt like the first book I chose for the empathy bookclub needed to encapsulate so many of my hopes and desires and all of my frustrations. And then I pivoted completely and picked a book I’m not sure I even liked. But this is the empathy bookclub, and Donald Trump’s message resonated with a lot of frustrated blue collar workers who watched their jobs disappear, much how Alan Clay’s character in